Know your HIV status? Text: Your Zip Code to KnowIt or 566948 to find HIV test centers near you www.HIVtest.org

Tuesday, August 31, 2010

August's Safety Net Message

Every 9 1/2 minutes, someone in the US is infected with HIV. Know your status, get tested this month!

Didja share this? Answer 5 questions and you could win a $25 gift card to VIP! Oooh la la! http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/C25BMHR


Where did the estimate that every 9½ minutes someone in the United States gets HIV come from?


--In 2008, CDC developed new estimates for the annual number of HIV infections—which suggest that about 56,300 new HIV infections occur each year. This estimate is a national average. CDC arrived at the 9½ minutes figure by dividing the number of minutes in one year by the 56,300 new HIV infections that were estimated for 2006. This result indicates that, on average, one new HIV infection occurs every 9.34 minutes in a year. For more information on the 56,300 estimate visit the HIV Incidence section of the CDC HIV Web site: http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/topics/surveillance/incidence.htm

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

HIV Infections and the Law

Shared from our friend Josh:


Regarding the discussion on non-disclosure of HIV+ status. This is a case from Australia.

Most prosecutions for infections have been in the US and Canada, a trend that drew condemnations in Vienna 2010, but this is an increasing trend. Prosecutions have involved both hetero and MSM.

All of these cases so far involve people intentionally lying about their + status, or tampering with condoms to reduce their effectiveness and increase risk of transmission.

The concerns that have been raised include scaring people from getting tested (ie. if you know you're + and infect someone, you could go to prison). Another issue though is that a court could rule that all unsafe sex carries strict liability. In other words, not knowing your status is not enough of a defense.

In other words, the + partner is responsible for ANY infection resulting from unsafe sex if he knew or "ought to have known" there was a risk of transmission. Just as individuals do not have the right to consent to be stabbed or seriously injured, a court could rule that the right to private, consensual sex (ie. Lawrence v. Texas 2003) does not extend to transmission of a dangerous pathogen.

Taken to its logical conclusion, I fear that these well-intentioned measures aimed at a few reckless, or even callous individuals, could be used by a right-winger on the bench to all but re-criminalize gay sex, or sex between / with HIV+ individuals.

In the end, it proves that each individual must rely on themselves for protection. While trust is great, latex is better.

--Josh

http://news.smh.com.au/breaking-news-national/man-with-hiv-exposed-others-court-told-20100805-11jv2.html

Monday, July 26, 2010

Safety Net Team Luau @ Tommy's!

Have you ever seen a bear in a grass skirt? Come on down to Tommy's Restaurant on Wednesday, July 28th around suppertime to check out the Hawaiian Luau party brought to you by HGLHC's Safety Net project!

Congratulations to this month's Safety Net team member "T," who won a $25 gift card to CVS for sending out the previous Safety Net message and for completing the quick survey!

Wanna get in on the fun and help keep our community safe from HIV? Be a part of the team! Txt "SAFETY NET" to Jamie at 860-268-3777. We'll send you a quick message once a month that you can forward on to your friends to remind them about HIV testing and bring you news about HIV in CT. Fill out a quick survey once per month and you can win cool prizes and gift cards!

See you at Tommy's!

<3 -- Jamie

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Ka-BOOM!

Hey, y’all! Here’s the Safety Net message to send out as soon as you can:

Did you see fireworks this weekend? Don’t forget your HIV test, firecracker! ;) from the Safety Net Team


Once you’ve sent the message to your friends (especially to men who love men), take our quick survey here for your chance to win a $25 gift card to CVS this month!
http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/YKDPQWQ


Thanks team! Xoxox,
-Jamie

Monday, June 28, 2010

Last Ones Out of the Closet?

According to CNN, it's bisexual men. What do y'all think?

"I think a lot of bi people are afraid to come out because there is pressure on both sides."
--Joshua Verbeke, 29-year-old bisexual
http://www.cnn.com/2010/LIVING/06/28/bisexual.male.last.closet/index.html

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

May's Safety Net Message

What did the penis say to the condom?.... “Cover me, I’m going in!”


check out our FREE XL condoms @ HGLHC . Get some! 860-278-4163 or info@hglhc.org

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Send this message out to your friends via text message, email, Facebook, or Twitter and fill out this survey: http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/CSBZY5T
 
You will then be entered into a drawing for a $10 DunkinDonuts gift card!

Monday, May 3, 2010

April's Safety Net Winner!!

Congratulations to our own BRYAN  D (the really cute photo at left), the Safety Net volunteer who won this month's giveaway!! BRYAN is a Safety Net volunteer who completed the monthly survey to report his involvement with the project (basically, to report the # of txt, email, or FB messages sent/if he posted it as a FB status message) and won this month's drawing for a $10 GIFT CARD TO TISANE, a really cool coffee/tea house and bar serving delish Euro-Asian food (their gay night = Tuesday night, and queer women's night is the 1st Sunday of each month, FYI), and a SEXY GIFT BASKET!! Gooooo BRYAN!!

Volunteers, make sure you take ONE MINUTE to complete each month's short sur...vey that asks how many messages you sent to your friends (or even if you posted it on FB!) and you could be entered to win a great giftcard. Even if you don't want the giftcard (you selfless individual!), we still really need the numbers to analyze how the project is doing!!


Sorry, B, couldn't resist putting this cute topless photo of you up on the Safety Net blog.... what can I say, bbs, you're too cute! This was taken at an MPowerCT fun BBQ and Karaoke event, btw....
 
Stay tuned for May's message, coming up soon! Thanks to all of our volunteers! and if you're interested in becoming a Safety Net volunteeer, then just drop me a quick line-- even just "safety net"-- via email or txt! email: jamieb@hglhc.org or txt or call me at 860-268-3777
 
Thanks, y'all. You're amazing. <3

-Jamie B, Safety Net Team

Thursday, April 22, 2010

Love your Latex: Condoms 101

Condom Care & Storage:


Always…

  • Always get your condoms from a trusted location, where the temperature is controlled and condoms are displayed away from windows and direct sunlight. HGLHC cares for our condoms and stores them in temperature controlled conditions away from sunlight.
  • Always store condoms at room temperature (55° - 80° F) and in a dry place. This means you should avoid leaving them in your car for too long (where it can get too hot or too cold).
  • Always check the date to make sure the condom has not expired and make sure there aren't any tears or holes in the package
  • Always wash hands before handling a condom if you've been handling oil-based products like massage oil, baby oil, some lotions, vegetable oil, petroleum jelly (Vaseline), Crisco, etc. Why? Oils can break down the latex. That's why you should use water-based lubes like we give out @ HGLHC.
  • Always throw used condoms away in the garbage wrapped in tissue.
Never…

  • Never leave condoms in direct sunlight or store them for prolonged periods at temperatures above 100° F or below freezing. Never leave condoms in your glove compartment or your wallet.
  • Never reuse a condom!
  • Never throw used condoms away in the toilet. You'll have a lot of explaining to do to your plumber.


Using a Male Condom....

The best way to prevent a condom from breaking starts before you ever open the package. Follow these simple tips to help ensure you are being protected!

--- Remember, if you have never used a condom before, practice first! Put it on by yourself if you're a male(ladies, use a vibrator or banana) to make sure you know the drill before you are in the heat of the moment.


Before foreplay…

-- Check the expiration date. Never use a condom that is expired. Expiration dates are found on the packaging and also on the wrapper of each individual condom.
-- Make sure the condom wrapper has not been opened. If it looks extremely flat and smashed, don't use it.
-- If you feel good about the condom you chose, leave it un-opened in a handy, easy-to-reach location, like on the night stand near the bed... under the living room couch... in the kitchen cabinet... wherever you might get it on!

When to put it on…

-- Put the condom on at the time the penis is erect (hard) before it comes in contact with other skin. This will reduce your risk of spreading disease and will keep pre-cum away from your partner's body.
-- Use the condom during oral sex. You can still spread/contract sexually transmitted diseases and infections through your mouth! Try mint-flavored ones... freshen your breath while you're at it ;)

How to put it on…

-- Carefully open the condom wrapper. Start to tear the edge that has a zig-zag cut. Make sure you are only tearing the wrapper and NOT the condom! Never use your teeth, scissors, etc. to open a condom.
-- Pull the condom out check which side is up. Place your thumbs in the center of the condom and try to unroll it. If you can't, flip it over and try again. You want the rolled edge to be facing out. It should look kinda like a sombrero, like this:

-- PINCH THE TIP OF THE CONDOM so that you are pinching around an inch of latex and then (while you're still pinching the tip!!) put the condom on the penis. This is important-- you don't want any air in the condom because that could cause it to break when the guy ejaculates ("comes"). Put it on, while you are pinching the tip, and unroll it all the way to the base of the penis.
-- Use extra lubricant. Add water-based or silicone-based lube to the outside of the condom after it is already on. This helps to reduce friction and takes more stress off the condom. Don't apply lube to the shaft of the penis before the condom is on! This could cause the condom the slip off. However, a small amount of lube on the tip of the penis before the condom goes on is great for sensation and extra sensitivity.... so, a little lube is alright, but not down the whole penis, please!
-- Never use an oil product with condoms, including Crisco (ick!), Vaseline, hand lotions, or massage oils.


During and after…

-- If it slips off while you're getting off, get a new condom. If it breaks, get a new one. If you are ready for round #2, get a new one. Never re-use a condom or try to put it on after it has been unrolled.
-- When pulling out, hold the base of the condom to make sure it stays in place.
-- Take it off by grasping the opening of the condom at the base of the penis and slowly sliding it off. Wrap the used condom in a tissue and throw it in the garbage. Never flush a condom down the toilet.


Have fun, y'all!

-- Jamie B 
Safety Net team member--

So many condoms, so little time!

The really cool Safe Sex Store has the scoop on all the different condom varieties to help you choose the right kind. Mix it up - try something new!




Monday, April 19, 2010

April's Safety Net Message :)

Hey Safety Net team & volunteers,

Please send out by text or email the following Safety Net message, especially to any men who love men that you know.... and don't forget to fill out the survey after you send it!

Survey is here: http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/JRPGJYK

Message is as follows:

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APRIL'S SAFETY NET MESSAGE: **** TXT 4 UR TEST! Know your HIV status? Text YOUR ZIP CODE to KnowIt (or 566948) for ur nearest test center. OMG. GYT! ****

DID YOU KNOW....1 in 2 people who have sex will get a sexually transmitted disease (STD) by the age of 25, and most won’t know it. If you’re sexually active, the only ...way to know is... to GYT (Get Yourself Talking and Tested).

OMG. GYT! http://www.hivtest.org/

Find your nearest HIV and STD testing site online. Or call 860-278-4163 to set up your testing appointment.

You can even confidentially TEXT MESSAGE the Safety Net team leader, Jamie B, to set up an HIV and/or STD test at the Hartford Gay & Lesbian Health Collective (HGLHC). Just text "HIV TEST" to 860-268-3777.


Be Well. Be Yourself.
--your friends on the Safety Net team

http://hglhc-safety-net.blogspot.com/

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Once you've sent the message, please fill out this 30 second survey and you can WIN a fabulous gift card to TISANE!!!

http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/JRPGJYK

Enjoy their yummy menu items or have a delicious beverage of your choice at one of the coolest gay-friendly joints in Hartford. You can win this, all  because you're doing great work and helping to keep our community safer by preventing HIV & STDs.



big lovies,
-jamie (the gal in the polka dot boots)